Sunday, July 21, 2013

Of dreams and broken hearts

"When your heart breaks or your dreams hit the floor and crash, you must remember and accept that it will hurt a lot. You probably won't be able to get a grip immediately.There will be teary eyes and it will be difficult to fall asleep at nights.There will be day after day when you'll realize you are not getting any better.But then after all that while...after all the tears you could have cried and all the thoughts that might have crossed your mind,you will come of age.You'll realize that you had done every thing you could. You had pushed yourself as far as you could go.The only next step possible is to take a few steps back.And no matter how impossible it might seem today,some day, maybe weeks or months later will come a day, when it won't hurt as much as it does today.

Your life might not be what you thought it would be. Maybe you won't have all that you wanted to have.But what's the purpose to life if all our dreams came true.Success and failure never came without each other.Just the way we celebrate our joy, we must also learn to take defeat with a straight face.It's not cowardly to accept you were wrong.Neither does it make you less of a person if you end up in a mess sometimes. What is important is the part where you decide to brush the dirt off your knees and get up to walk again.

It's not like you fall out of love or it's not like you stop wanting something to happen.It all stays there somewhere in your heart. All that love never went away anywhere.All your dreams don't just die.You just learnt to console itself.



Even after all this happens, there will be days or moments when you'll want to let it go. When it will not be worth all the holding up you are trying to do.Those tiny moments here and there will make you the person you are going to become.We all have dreams, big and small.Most of them don't come true in the beginning.Most of them end up making you realize that each of those dreams were necessary. Those dreams taught you that in order to become a better person, one has to have a few dreams that didn't come true. And those broken dreams will keep stoking your soul from inside.They will keep stoking you till the day you are ready to dream again.Till they day you are not scared anymore to work for those dreams to come true.Till they day you realize that if you want it to happen, all you got to do is work to make it happen.


We humans are creatures who were made to endure the tough.We were wired this way.No matter how difficult we think it is, but there always is hope. There always is some place where you can start over again.And there's no guarantee that your heart won't break after that.No guarantee that all of your dreams will come true henceforth.But you'll still have it in you.No matter what people tell you and no matter what you read in some novel, repair is easy.The best gift we people have is our dreams.We need to protect them and fight for them.Because our dreams are what make us up and break us down at the same time.We need to keep dreaming and the only reason I can say that my heart has never been broken is because I have a wild heart and wild hearts...they just don't break."

2 comments:

  1. We have that heart babe! The Wild. The strong.
    the one that might scream out loud sometimes, but the very next Moment is ready to take it All !
    The one that has Survived, n will. Always. :)

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